This has probably been the most asked question I’ve received since I made the announcement that I’m moving. I feel like every time I answer this question I sound very vague and unsure, which has led many to think…
Doing the Work
I recently caught up with one of my exes, and one of the things he asked was if I was currently on any dating apps? He went on to explain those he had tried, and dates he had gone on….
“There Are No ‘GOOD’ Men.”
I completely and utterly resent this statement. Every time I hear women say this or statements similar, I can’t help but wonder, “who hurt you?” I believe we’ve all been through and experienced different types of hurt, but at what…
LOVE in the New Year
Are you someone looking for love in the New Year? Are you even considering thinking about finding love in 2018?? Great! Please proceed… (If you happen to be someone who’s already found love I encourage you to read this as…
Making Peace With 2017
On a positive note: Thank God I got through it. On a “keeping it real” note: Praise Jesus it’s over. I was just talking with a friend about this post and was telling them how over 2017 I’ve been. They…
What You Allow, Will Continue.
I cannot tell you how many times I’ve said these five words, it should be engraved on my headstone when I die. If we’ve ever shared stories, shared a conversation, even shared an uber…you’ve most likely heard these five words…
4 Things On Social Media…
Fellas, any women that are considering dating you are gonna look at 4 things on your social media… 1. Who you follow 2. What you like 3. What you post 4. Who comments on your page and what they say…
The Power in Knowing Your Truth
The definition of the word true is: real, genuine, authentic. I doubt everything we’ve ever said about someone or that someone has said about us has always been true. I would find it so frustrating when I knew the words being said…
Hiding The Hurt
Several months ago I sat on my counselors couch searching for words to try and describe the pain that I was in. This was a pain I had never experienced in my entire life, it was the type of…
Instagram ‘Models’ & Relationships
We were lying in bed one evening scrolling through his Instagram feed (I didn’t have my own social media at the time) laughing at some of the posts when one, in particular, caught my attention. It was a huge ass…